The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up The essential female companion from the first moment he walks out of your life! The Girls' Guide to Surviving a Break-Up offers step-by-step advice for getting over him.

The Hell with Love: Poems to Mend a Broken Heart Finally a book of poetry that describes every emotion you go through when you are in love and heart broken. This book is amazing and wonderful. I recommend it to who ever loves poetry and ever had a broken heart.

He's Just Not That Into You (The Newly Expanded Edition): The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys It seems like everywhere you turn the phrase "He's just not that into you" is being thrown around. And for good reason! The ladies are finally done waiting by the phone - hey, why sit at home for the phone to ring when it's so obvious that he's just not that into you?

Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit? In easy psychological terms, this book helps a woman understand why a man may react negatively to her even when she feels she's doing everything right for a relationship. With different female personalities portrayed, the reader will find themselves fitting one or more of the profiles.

What Do You Do Now?

Divorcing takes a lot of energy. Divorcing consumes your whole life, affecting all aspects, from the time you wake in the morning until you go to sleep at night. Being pulled in so many directions, you are kept so busy, there’s very little time for taking care of you.

Suddenly the divorce is final. The papers are in your hands. What do you do now? You know you will continue to go to work everyday; you know you will continue to take care of your children. What about you? This is a big question. In fact the inability of answering this question is the reason why many people stay in bad marriages. Where do you personally go from here? To start, you need to envision the life you want, and then take the necessary steps to get there.

Personally, you have been through the wringer. Some people stop right here. They get stuck in their past. They ask themselves, “what if this and what if that?” People staying for months or even years in this “what if” mode is not uncommon. They longer they stay, the more “stuck” they get. They consume themselves in self-pity.

You need to try very hard to avoid this pitfall. It’s a non-productive waste of time for you to “what if” your life. You cannot change the past.

You can control your future.

Get together with your friends and family. In the beginning you will talk about your divorce, how can you avoid it? Your friends and family will be concerned about you. But as time goes on, stop talking about your divorce in social situations. Instead, get involved in your friends and family’s lives.

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You must encourage yourself to start taking proper care of yourself. Pamper yourself. You deserve it! You will be creating a new you and in time you will be a happy, whole, balanced person. For a long time you have been ignoring important health rules, now is the time to get focused on your health and well-being. Some things for you to do are:

· Exercise every day
· Eat nutritious meals
· Take vitamins
· Get eight hours of sleep every night
· Read
· Catch up on current events
· If you have a hobby spend more time on it
· Pursue an interest
· Charity work
· Volunteer
· Take classes or courses of interest

As you move through this new life, you will regain your self-confidence. Life is for living and enjoying. Time spent on “what if “ this and “what if” that on a marriage that is over, is wasted time. Only you can take care of you! Time spent on taking care of you, will make you healthier and stronger both physically and mentally. You and your children will benefit from your positive outlook on life.

You are now taking control of your future!

This is what you must do now!

Liz Wertman / "Divorce Strategy for Men and Women". For those that want their questions answered and their problems solved! Preparation and protection for your future! http://www.divorcewell.com

Tigress Luv , the Breakup Guru, is the author of How to STOP a Breakup, an instantly available webBook and website, or downloadable ebook, designed to help you STOP or reverse your break up and get your ex back, and How to Get Over a Breakup, also an instantly available online webBook and website, or ebook download, designed to help you understand and heal from a broken heart . Both are available on this site and are free when you join our breaking up help and support community.

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